My blog/babbling/advice/self help how to guide on anything and everything I can barf up. After 14 years of single parenthood, kids, dating, marriage, divorce, sex, wine, lotsa cats & finally finding Mr. Wonderful, I think I’m a pretty damned good expert on all of this shit. I’m also an opinionated neurotic nutbag but I have a deep joy for life and all the crap it offers. I love life, my kids, family, friends, my cats and Mr. Wonderful…ok I love the dang dogs too, but I am a cat lady through and through. Every day I wake up is a gift and I do not aim to waste any more time on bullshit, I had enough already when I was younger, thinner and had an amazeballs lookin’ ass. Hang out with me here for awhile, you may just enjoy yourself!